Imagine your life is a play. You are the star of the show. You are also the director looking down and watching all the characters and experiences that unfold In your world. Since only some things in life are predestined, the choices that you and others around you make build the story of your life. You also have the ability to help rewrite the script.
I have been traveling a lot meeting people for private sessions. It is a joy to read for everyone and a bonus to meet you in person! No matter if I am in America, Canada, The Netherlands or South Africa (thank you for my recent amazing adventure, and warm welcome) I find that there is an overall theme of lessons that weaves through all of our story lines. First is self love, another is dealing with loss. The loss of a loved one who has crossed over and the loss of a relationship where both parties are still alive on the earth plane. Those of us that believe in the spirit world and the world of energy seem to be more sensitive to other people’s feelings. They are the givers in life. Sometimes generous to a fault.
The first true love is self love. It doesn’t mean you are selfish. It means that your needs matter! When you go on an airplane and the safety instructions are given, they always say in case of an emergency put your oxygen mask on before helping others. I recently read for the most wonderful group of ladies in South Africa. None of them knew one another before the meeting.They were lovely! In most all my groups the people who are suppose to be there attend. In fact, it’s like the guides use divine intervention in choosing the group and most always there is so much more of a connection between them than just the readings they get. One of the girls, a beautiful woman, had a husband who was emotionally and psychologically abusive. He controls everyone with his money, including their only child. In fact, this dysfunctional #%^#* (bleep) is ganging up against his wife with the teenage daughter like the mean girls in high school. When someone puts you down enough times, you begin to believe it.
Over forty years ago I was married for a short time. A radio station wanted to interview me. I was so excited to share my new found purpose and ability to help people. I called him after the interview so wanting his approval and he said “I wasn’t impressed. You should go back to speech school”. I finally got tired of this a few years later and we divorced. It took time to build up myself esteem. It will take time for her as well but I know she will succeed! There was a young 20 year old girl in the same group. She has experienced more loss in her young life than most in midlife. I saw her mother in spirit Who suffered from cancer. She had passed some years ago way before her time! There wasn’t a dry eye in the room. I think all the women in the room wanted to adopt her. The woman I just wrote about said, “I think I knew your mom”. Indeed! They figured it out and she knew her! They are going to go out for lunch. This young girl who had other great premature losses also exuded an amazing strength of faith. An old soul in a young body teaching each one of us a lesson in coping with great loss. By the time they left, emails and phone numbers were being exchanged. After one morning, 7 strangers had become 7 friends.
I ask you to think about your life. The choices you make. Do you come from a place of strength or weakness? Do you embrace your self love? Do you cope with loss with faith or do you become a victim? You have control of the pen on paper. Make sure you direct the scenes of your life with wisdom and care. Wishing you a happily ever after!
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